As we know that physical beauty of any person male or female attracts other person. But it does not mean that physical beauty is the only criteria of a person’s personality. In personality development a person should be mentally & physically fit. In comparison mental health comes first because your behavior with other people should be perfect. Well behaved person makes an impression.
If you take care of some simple things in your behavior you will become outstanding. It is the manners which separate the man from the animals. In fact the word "manner" is derived from "man" that means it is a basic trait of man. A person without manners can hardly deserve to be called a human being. Manners are not what you say or do under the arc light. It is the reflection of our behavior with others. Good manners are the backbone of the society.
Sympathy, love & kindness towards the fellow beings are important.
Talk politely with others whether they are elder or younger.
Control your emotions while talking others.
If you hurt someone apologize by saying I am sorry.
Please & thank you are small changes with which we pay our way back as a social being & keeps the life running smoothly.
Sir, madam, dear, please, sorry, excuse me, thank you etc are some words which should be used in daily conversation.
Speak softly, sweetly & appropriately without hurting the feelings of others.
Avoid mental tensions.
While going out of house be properly dressed. Wear your clothes according to the occasions.
While you are at a function or meeting do not move your hands or legs unnecessarily.
While sitting make sure that your weight is equal on hips & legs. Do not shake legs & your both knees should not be apart from each other.
Your drink tea, coffee or cold drink should always be in the left hand.
In party or function if someone is saying anything does not interrupt him.
Beside co-operation, sympathetic attitude & tolerance one should be a good listener.
Self control & restraint are corner stones of good manners.
If a person is kind, courteous, polite & helpful towards others, he is liked. He commands respect from others. From what we get we can make a living, what we give however, make a life.